Though at first look they seem basic, boyfriend jeans for women are a secret weapon for curvaceous women looking for comfort without compromising style. Taming those somewhat loose designs so they look appealing (not frumpy) is all about balance—and a little bit of attitude.

Start with a fit that fits you perfectly. Ignore the pairs buried under extra cloth. Rather, search for designs marked “relaxed,” “slouchy slim,” or perhaps “curvy boyfriend.” These contour your waist even while they allow room through the hips and thighs. Too loose, and you lose your curvaceous shape. Too tight, and, well, you totally destroy the intended use for boyfriend jeans.

Put them on at the ankle. Rolling the hem maintains freshness and reveals a hint of ankle. This gives your body a longer, slimmer line and adds structure as well as attracts the eye lower. If you’re feeling sophisticated, add block-heel sandals; else, wear sneakers or loafers when you’re brunch-bound.

Top half is important. Combining boyfriend jeans with something fitting or tucked-in helps to highlight your shape front and center. Here you look great in bodysuits, sleek tees, or structured blazers. Try a French tuck—half in, half out—to provide waist definition if you enjoy a loose shirt. Your jeans’s silky drape against a more tailored shirt really makes a difference.

Up until you slide one through those belt loops, belts are underappreciated. The focal point of your entire outfit can be a quirky buckle or a popsicle of color. Those jeans suddenly are deliberate and fashionable rather than only comfortable.

Finish things with confidence and maybe a striking earring or strong lipstick. Style is personal, hence boyfriend jeans for curves mostly highlight your figure on your own terms. Pursue that comfortable-cool attitude, make tweaks until you feel just perfect, and get ready to attack your day—or at least the best-looking grocery run ever.